A couple of months ago, I ended a 6-week losing streak in Friday Night Poker that I was more than happy to see go. Prior to that streak starting, I had built some positive momentum of winning quite a bit more than I was losing. Chronic winning and chronic losing create very different psychological game play. It is my opinion that winning streaks are built by, quite literally, a winning attitude. Conversely, losing streaks are worsened and continued by a losing attitude. Until you realize you're playing with a losing attitude, you're going to just keep losing.
What is a losing attitude in poker?
1. You're easily frustrated.
2. You get upset, or even angry, more often than usual when other players suck out on the river.
3. You've lost your momentum and you no longer play hands like you were when you were winning.
4. You don't play the people as much as you play your cards, and you mis-play those.
5. You are irritated when you folded your hand (smartly) and realize that your hand would have won.
6. Your betting doesn't make any sense.
7. You literally think about all of the losing you've been doing more than you focus on winning this hand and this game.
8. All the talk at the table has you distracted and frustrated.
What is a winning attitude in poker?
1. You play relaxed and in control.
2. You play patiently, allowing yourself to fold smartly without looking back in regret.
3. You don't get angry when players suck out on the river because you are already aware of player tendencies at the table and you adjust your game accordingly.
4. You play the people at least as much as you play your cards, watching for trends, habits, and tells.
5. Because you understand how your opponents are playing, your betting makes perfect sense. You know for example that some people just won't be raised out of their card chase, so you don't make any critical errors.
6. You certainly don't think about losing, maybe not even winning because you are only thinking about this hand, building momentum, and not allowing your opponents to gain momentum.
7. You are not distracted by anything that is going on at the table. It's almost as if you have blocked that nonsense out and you're in a zone.
8. You never believe your out of it as long as you have a chip in front of you.
I love poker so much because of the psychology-factor. Sometimes it doesn't even matter which 2 cards you hold in your hand. When you've got it, you can win very often regardless of the strength of your hand. When you've lost it however, you MUST have a good hand to have a prayer for success. So, in my opinion, if you want long-term success in really anything, including poker, you need to think like a dominant champion. Believe you will win. Do everything just like you do when you're winning.
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